On the opposite side of the spectrum from when last we spoke, there are some shows that don't lend themselves well to happy fun let's-get-together-and-watch-that-show parties. It's not that I want to keep certain shows to myself (I do not get the pseudo-hipster attitude of NOT telling people about awesome things) but rather that some shows, usually the ones that I am particularly engaged in or attached to, are not ones that I want to watch with other people. At least the first time that I see an episode. Some shows I have to let be mine first.
Sons of Anarchy
KP visited a couple of weeks ago and we were trying to figure out a show to watch while we were hanging out. There was a quick mutual agreement that SoA, though a favorite of us both, just wasn't something you watched with someone else. Part of the brilliance of SoA is that it reaches inside of you and claws at all the things that make you human. It's visceral, terrifying, and I wouldn't give it up for a second. But, well, it's just a private experience.
The truth is that when I started watching this show no one I knew watched it also. Therefore I watched it on my own and by the time other people I knew started watching I was too far ahead to invite them over for new episodes on a Friday night. Now, the idea that there would be other people around when new information trickles in about Peter, or Olivia absorbs her next in a never ending parade of blows, or Walter makes his latest food request just seems too strange to me.
Game of Thrones
I'm too fucking involved in GoT to watch it with anyone else. I rejoice, I cry, I yell, I bite my nails, I stop breathing, sometimes I even get to laugh. I exclaim my love and hate at the screen. I panic for what has happened, what is happening, for what is yet to happen, for everything. I can't say that it is a pretty sight. It would annoy the living bejesus out of someone to be watching this with me, and it would annoy me to try and tone down my reactions. I was once told that a sign of maturity is to recognize and live within your limitations. I consider it the hight of maturity for me to watch GoT alone.
Dexter is all about honesty: are we telling the truth or are we lying? Because so much of the show is about exposing the truth you end up as a viewer feeling a bit exposed yourself, and in that it is a little uncomfortable to glance over and see a loved one. Dexter leaves you feeling raw, edgy, kinda giddy and very much in the mood for a bit of solitude to mull over the state of your being.
Legend of the Seeker
I'm fairly sure that if anyone saw just how unabashedly I love this silly little defunct fantasy show that they would disown me in a heartbeat. (Actually, LilBro might have watched a few minutes with me before deciding I was a lunatic and he had better things to do.) They might be right to do so. But, to save both myself and them from the pain of separation, I'll just keep LotS for rainy days when family and friends are out having real lives.
The TV Girl
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- I guess you would like to know a little bit about the person making all these proclamations upon good taste and horrid characters. I'm Andrea and when I was 15 I fell in love. An hour after meeting "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" I was forever altered in the way only love can, and I never questioned for one minute afterwards that television offered me an amazing chance to experience lives and moments that I could never imagine. So now, when I'm not getting distracted by my real life, I write about TV. I also read, am finishing a Master's degree in English Literature, travel, am attempting to learn vegan cooking, am the 5th of 6 children, and drive my roommate nuts by constantly cleaning our already clean apartment. Now that we're old friends, time for you to take my opinions as the be all and end all.